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Why are we jealous?

Posted on 11/22/2009 8:01:36 PM
Ton
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Jealous is in our human nature.  Jealousy can occur between a man and woman for several different reasons – mistrust, unstable relationship, and insecurity. 

 I found jealous produces the most tremendous pain and distress to a human being.  It lies somewhere in the gray area between sanity and madness.  If someone says to me that he or she is not a jealous person, I think that person is lying to him or herself.   

Do you agree with me?  Please share your thoughts with me.

 
Posted on 11/22/2009 8:33:08 PM
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Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously.
Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one
thinks clearly when jealous.

Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous
person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person
unattractive, even repulsive.

No one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. So
what causes jealousy?

When you are jealous, a line of communication is going on with
your spouse or lover that is hidden from you. The mystery causes
the pain. If you witnessed your spouse’s communication line, so it
 was not hidden from you, you would not feel jealous.

Posted on 11/22/2009 8:48:34 PM
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ton no love no jealuos.but love sweetie need a good and pation heart
Posted on 11/22/2009 9:04:26 PM
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Shut up dara.....I want your love and patience now. Can we get marry now?  Don't make me come over to gigi with you....I'm too jealous of you being with other man....hahahhahaha

On a serious note, that's what I always say to her....if there is no love, there no jealousy.


ton no love no jealuos.but love sweetie need a good and pation heart

Posted on 11/22/2009 9:06:46 PM
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poor ton, are you love male or female
Posted on 11/22/2009 9:09:00 PM
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ton why you jealuos me with other man, what man i got, ton you are gay
Posted on 11/22/2009 9:10:21 PM
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You know who I love you silly old man....geezzzzz...I love to say silly old man to you....hahahaha. It makes me feel younger....


poor ton, are you love male or female
Posted on 11/22/2009 9:11:49 PM
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 ton love old man dara hehe
Posted on 11/22/2009 9:16:57 PM
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Silly old man......hahahaha



 ton love old man dara hehe

Posted on 11/23/2009 2:11:58 AM
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every human always have some jealousy ,but it depend you can't be jealous all the time. in relationship you have to trust each other, if two persons does't trust each other or jealous all the time there is no relationship. yes Ton if someone tell you they are not jealous , they must be lies
Posted on 11/23/2009 2:57:48 AM
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lealousy  is in every bady
Posted on 11/23/2009 7:21:54 AM
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No jealousy or too much of it are both bad.According to Polish proverb 'Sho zanadto to ne zdravo' (Anything that is too much is not good).For example,snake's poison can kill person.But if we every day try a very small doze of it,immune system will get used to it and when someone decide to poison us,we wont be killed.Jealousy is something we all have.Someone has it too much,someone just enough.We have to control our feelings no matter what happens.People who we love (if they love us too),they wont provocate us feel jealous of them.That is ultimate care and love.

Sometimes jealousy comes with love:

When I was a child I was jealous because my mother never expressed her feeling for me.I saw aunt hugging her daughter,telling others how she is proud of her,how much she loves her.My parents never spent with me much time and they never told anyone that they love me.It might sound funny but I need hug,kiss,I need 1000 times a day to hear that I am important and loved.My mum never did it.By the way,later I was reading a book about how to raise children and according to it scientists have noticed that a child is not happy if parents hug him/her less than 7 times a day.Some people are sensitive and need a little bit more attention than others.Loving and caring people always understand it and give it to us.If we love them in return,we shouldnt ask more than they can give to us.Everything needs BALANCE.Now when we understand each other the problem is solved.I know that I love my mum and I was jealous.It is fact.So sometimes jealousy (just a little bit) can come with love.

Sometimes jealousy comes without love:

It is strong and makes us want not to love but to possess.So we possess.If we cannot possess,so we pretend to let it go.We set it free but prevent anyone take what was ours.It means 'I cannot have it so no one will have it too'.I can give you an example too if you need.This type of jealousy is fatal and I really hate it.

 

Ton,I am very jealous and I am not trying to hide it.At the same time I hate battle fields and hope to reach place where atmoshpere will be relaxing.So I put my jealousy in my **** and let it vibrate there when no one can see.I just have some rules that I follow in my life:

1. control myself

3. people in relationship are EQUAL and FREE (at the same time HONEST (!) )

4. if I dont like smth-do my best to change it; if cannot change - leave etc.

Lets meet in 20 years and see how successful in my personal life i would be.Deal?

Posted on 11/23/2009 7:51:22 AM
...LEO...
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Wrong I'm not Jealous with you at all because you nake TOP lol...


Jealous is in our human nature.  Jealousy can occur between a man and woman for several different reasons – mistrust, unstable relationship, and insecurity. 

 I found jealous produces the most tremendous pain and distress to a human being.  It lies somewhere in the gray area between sanity and madness.  If someone says to me that he or she is not a jealous person, I think that person is lying to him or herself.   

Do you agree with me?  Please share your thoughts with me.

 
Posted on 11/23/2009 7:53:53 AM
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Wrong I'm not Jealous with you at all because you nake TOP lol...


 

I like nake guys.Ton you make me horny.Sexy look 100%.Throw away your razor and never wear clothes.

Posted on 11/23/2009 7:59:19 AM
...LEO...
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Yeah because you're a girl NOT I! I like to jealous with you!


Wrong I'm not Jealous with you at all because you nake TOP lol...


I like nake guys.Ton you make me horny.Sexy look 100%.Throw away your razor and never wear clothes.

Posted on 11/23/2009 8:21:16 AM
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Bun I will cheat on you and let you know.You can already begin to be jealous.
Posted on 11/23/2009 8:47:16 AM
...LEO...
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No I don't mind if you lke it that`way!


Bun I will cheat on you and let you know.You can already begin to be jealous.
Posted on 11/23/2009 2:43:11 PM
king of flirt
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ton wear back your shirt
Posted on 11/23/2009 2:48:03 PM
Ton
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Don't be jealous of me bong BM. You can be naked too.  I want to see your whole body being naked...I think Jana loves to see that too.
Wrong I'm not Jealous with you at all because you nake TOP lol...


Jealous is in our human nature.  Jealousy can occur between a man and woman for several different reasons – mistrust, unstable relationship, and insecurity. 

 I found jealous produces the most tremendous pain and distress to a human being.  It lies somewhere in the gray area between sanity and madness.  If someone says to me that he or she is not a jealous person, I think that person is lying to him or herself.   

Do you agree with me?  Please share your thoughts with me.

 
Posted on 11/23/2009 2:50:22 PM
Ton
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Dara, I want you to come here and put the shirt on for me.


ton wear back your shirt

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